Coping
When Mom is unhappy at Assisted Living
After two weeks in the assisted living facility my mom is intensely unhappy. How much time should we let pass by if she continues to feel so terrible? terrible? We do have the option of her coming to live with me in Tennessee, however she has lived most of her 90 years in California. I am... »
OK now I’m sick of this rollar-coaster ride….why do I have to spend my weekend at moms while the POA and her family keep going out of town
OK now I’m sick of this rollar-coaster ride….why do I have to spend my weekend at moms while the POA and her family keep going out of town This is an interesting scenario because in many ways it’s a little related to how my sisters and I are handling the care of our parents. However,... »
Choosing between work and and caring for an elder
How do you deal with an employer who is pushing you to make the choice between work and caring for your elder? This week’s question came from a caregiver having a hard time at work. She takes care of her mother who is afflicted with Parkinson’ s Disease. Already in a stressful situation, her boss... »